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Keeping It in the Family: Special Advantages and Disadvantages of Hiring Friends and Relatives
06/ 25/ 2004


by Jeffrey Moses

Many small-business owners believe that bringing family members and close friends into their company will create an especially harmonious group of employees. Doing so offers specific advantages, but also opens the possibility that the smooth operations of the company may be compromised. Reviewing the following points will help you determine if hiring your daughter, son, cousin or golfing buddy will be worth it in the long run and also can help you minimize the effects of a wrong decision by taking certain steps at the time of hiring.

Advantages
  • Clearly, family members and close friends may come into a business with a strong commitment to the company, more so than the average employee. Because relatives may think of the company as an extension of the family, they may be more likely to work into the evening and over weekends when needed, realizing that they will personally benefit from the long-term success of the company.
  • When it comes to relatives and friends, you know them well and are intimately familiar with their capabilities and shortcomings. This may enable you to place them in just the right position. Also, your familiarity may allow you to train them more quickly than other new employees.
  • Hiring your own children can offer special financial advantages. First, your company will be able to expense their salaries just like that of any employee (with the advantage that your kids are earning extra money). Second, if they’re under the age of 18, you won’t have to set aside payroll taxes for them if your company is unincorporated. Note: the IRS will take exception if the wages are inappropriately high for the work done. They don’t want to see small-business owners shelter cash by hiring their own children.
Disadvantages
  • A relative may take advantage of family status, knowing that it’s hard to fire them when you’re going to be sitting down at the dinner table with them that night.
  • Another disadvantage is that other employees may see the hiring as nepotism, especially if the family member is given a preferred position without having the appropriate experience or training.
  • Family problems may be brought into the workplace. It’s one thing to have a family disagreement at night and be able to leave it when going to work in the morning. But if you’re facing the same person at work, the strain could affect the entire business.
Managing the disadvantages
  • Make sure that the relatives or friends you’re hiring really have the skills and experience for the job. Never hire relatives or friends unless you would hire them even if you had never met them before the interview process started. This will minimize the chances of having to let them go, and will placate employees who may feel unfairly passed over in favor of a relative. (Exception: if you’re hiring your son or daughter for, say, a part-time summer job, most of your employees will understand that you’re doing your kids a favor by helping them earn a little extra money. Normally, a part-time job of this type will not pay enough to be a threat to other employees.)
  • Write a detailed job description and make it clear that if the relative or friend doesn’t perform as expected, he or she will be let go. Hire on a probationary basis, establishing a two-week or month-long period to see how things work out.
  • One way to take the sting out of firing a friend or family member is to make it clear at the time of hiring that the person’s job performance will be reviewed during the probationary period by a group of managers or employees. This will help take you and other family members off the hook if you are ‘outvoted’ and have to let the person go.
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