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Seven Steps to Avoid Feeling Isolated When Working for Yourself
04/ 03/ 2002


When you first decided to become self-employed, you probably did so because you loved what you do. You probably wanted to start your own business so that you could express yourself fully and find as much success and satisfaction as possible in your work.

But along the way, you might have found yourself putting in long hours at your desk, or staying late at the office night after night as you built your business' reputation and cash flow. In so doing, you probably spent a high percentage of your time alone, away from family, friends and associates. The result could be a feeling of isolation, or even loneliness. In today's Workshop, long-time self-employed writer Jeff Moses gives seven tips for avoiding a feeling of isolation.

Make time at least once or twice every week to meet with people during the day. This could be a scheduled business or social lunch, or a planned break to meet with family members for a walk in the park. If you find yourself feeling isolated in your work, you simply have to schedule time to be with others, just as you would schedule a regular business meeting. When you schedule such time, don't change your mind and think something else is more important at the last minute.

Make plans to meet regularly with other professionals in your field. This can involve workshops, conferences or evening get-togethers. Not only will this get you out with others, it can help you network and potentially increase business.

Consider teaching a part-time class in your field, if you have the expertise. Sharing time and experience can be a valuable and emotionally rewarding undertaking.

Make a point of going to the office for a meeting with one or more of your clients, even when it's not necessary. With E-mail, phone and fax, it's common these days for a self-employed professional to work months at a time without meeting a client face-to face. Go out of your way to make a personal visit. It will break your isolation, and is good business practice.

When scheduling a meeting with potential new clients, consider making it a breakfast, lunch or dinner get-together. This will break up the "sameness" of your workday, and give your business a professional appearance.

Consider forming a partnership, or bringing in associates to your business. This will add to your contact with others, and potentially could increase the success of your work.

Above all, don't neglect spending time with loved ones. As the saying goes: at the end of one's life, few people look back and wish they'd spent more time at the office away from their family. Remember what you're working for, and don't keep putting off quality time.

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